Monday, August 31, 2009

Useless Complain and Blame

Have you ever complain or blame ? Am sure you and i do ! In one way or another, we do get caught up in complain and blame. Nothing special......I suppose it is a natural body chemistry to react in certain ways, its sorta quite normal...

But the NOT NORMAL is, it has become our "Stories" that we became an Actor for our complain and blame, people sometime addicted to MUST EXPRESS their complain and blame like a re-playing movie, keep rewind it and then play again....meet new ppl play it again....again again again again again......and hence one may complain - Why this happen to me? Why me and Why me?

Well guess what? WHY YOU is because you still Don't Get it! Your Itchy mouth and itchy innerchild wanna rewind the video and keep wanna play it again and again. When the "Stories" near end, you still hold it on the old and keep want it to replay, perhaps sometimes is to verify how good you are feeling it when you replay the movie again, thinking you are the good/worst in your role towards your "stories" ...not knowing you are acting as an actor or actress, or maybe a clown maybe? heheeee

Then...Oh you have a choice, you run into hermit, not wanting to meet anyone and handle anything, thinking that you hide inside and treat it as you have choosen your reality.....yet you not happy? Why ? because, inside you still keep replaying the video movie! This time, you choose to play it and watch it by yourself alone in your own room...and not share with others.....but STILL, you still complaining and blaming in one way or another.

Well......to all those who "HOUSE YOUR STORIES" of Complain and Blame, be it you share with many many many ppl like an actor/ress or you hide yoruself alone like a sad clown....Universe will just going to deliver this to you more and more, much more until it overflooded....still top it up TILL YOU GET IT and say - YES I WILLING TO CHANGE AND

No.1 thing for me to change is I Stop looking backward on Complain and Blame and i Start Look at Whats my own SHITS is giving me the repetitious circle!

No.2 I change bcoz i want to experience NEW, and New thing cannot based on my past "stories" to create a REASON for my Solution! Bcoz this is ultimately a MOCKUP of OLD as New, thinking it will sort out everything but it just your clever ego find ways to stay in comfort zone....E.G bcoz of such such experience, so my new thing must be this this this so that i wont get hurt again and ppl wont notice this too! You must be openly facing the new and take a steps towards it....

No.3 I willing to challenge myself to take first step to something really NEW....Knowing that no one really take Gun point on my head to do it...its a matter that i Do it on my own pace...so i can start on a baby steps!

No.4 YES! Lets do it, i do my part and the rest i let the divine....knowing that everytime if i slip back to the Old and complain and blame"stories" again, i tell myself Immediately to Remember the New choice that i create!

So it is, so let it be done! Thank you!

So, Happy Ending your STORIES of useless complain and blame that :

- waste your time
- lower your energy
- lower productivity

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